LGBTQ Therapist Portland

You’re tired of carrying shame that was never yours to begin with. If you’re searching for affirming care from an LGBTQ therapist in Portland, I’m here to support you every step of the way.

You grew up being told (directly or indirectly) that something was wrong with who you are. Maybe it came from your family, school, religious community, or society at large. You internalized that judgment, and even now, after all the work you’ve done to accept yourself, that shame still lingers.

Rationally, you know your gender or sexual identity isn’t something to be ashamed of. But that doesn’t stop the haunting voice inside. That inner critic (the one that echoes past bullying, rejection, or religious trauma) feels like it's always waiting to tear you down or stopping you in your tracks when you want to move forward. And sometimes, you find yourself believing it.

Healing Begins When You’re Fully Seen

You carry a low-grade fear or discomfort almost all the time. At work. On the street. In friendships. Even in Queer spaces, you feel like you’re not doing it “right,” like everyone else has figured out how to be confidently themselves, while you’re still stuck second-guessing everything.

You might catch yourself using the same harsh language toward yourself that others once used. You worry that even people who love you might leave if they really knew you. Shame is heavy, and it’s everywhere. It can affect your relationships, your job, your confidence, and your sense of belonging.

Recent political attacks, anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation, and hate in the media only make that sense of fear and otherness worse. It’s exhausting. You feel like you’re trying so hard, and still… stuck. LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in Portland helps you reconnect with your voice, your worth, and your truth.

My Name is Eric Goodwin, an LGBTQ Therapist in Portland

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor, who identifies as Queer, Gay, and Non-Binary, offering LGBTQ affirming counseling in Portland and across Oregon. I know what it’s like to move through a world that wasn’t built for us, and I also know how powerful it can be to reclaim your voice, your identity, and your sense of self-worth.

I provide LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in Portland for people who are carrying shame, struggling with self-criticism, or feeling lost in their identity. Whether you’re working through internalized homophobia or transphobia, past trauma, depression, anxiety, or just the grind of surviving in an invalidating world, you deserve support that gets it.

You don’t have to keep going it alone or wondering if you’re just being “too sensitive.” You deserve support from someone who gets the nuances of Queer life; who knows that healing isn’t just about reducing symptoms, but about reclaiming joy, community, and self-trust.

In a world where your identity is often politicized or erased, therapy can be a space that centers you. Not just as a “client,” but as a whole person with rich complexity. As your therapist, I’ll show up as a real human being, too; someone who understands both the beauty and the grief of being Queer in a complicated world. You don’t need to educate me, translate your experience, or worry about being misunderstood. I’ll meet you with respect, warmth, and deep presence.

Therapy That Affirms Your Identity and Honors Your Story

Therapy with me is support where you can show up fully and authentically, without having to explain or defend who you are. It’s a place where you’ll be seen. Not just tolerated, but deeply affirmed.

In our work together, we’ll begin to explore how moments of judgment, rejection, or fear from your past might still be shaping the way you relate to yourself and others today. Often, shame doesn’t show up in obvious ways. It threads itself through daily decisions, relationships, and self-talk. We’ll follow that thread, curiously…patiently, and begin untangling it.

As you gain insight, we’ll challenge internalized messages that don’t actually align with your values or your truth. We’ll bring mindful attention to the parts of you that hold fear or criticism, helping you move toward them with compassion instead of avoidance or judgment. We’ll also make room for joy, not performative or forced, but the kind that comes in quiet moments of relief, clarity, or self-recognition.

Whether you’re navigating coming out, your role in relationships, or the deeply personal work of figuring out who you are how you want to live, therapy can offer support in finding steadiness, depth, and permission to simply be. No alterations necessary to be worthy.

Support for LGBTQ+ Anxiety, Shame, and Self-Criticism

Clients who work with me often begin therapy feeling uncertain. There’s often a quiet fear that maybe they’re too broken, too much, or somehow not “Queer enough” to belong. There can be an internal debate about whether they should just push through these challenges alone.

As the work begins, subtle shifts often emerge. Shame softens. Not all at once, but in small ways. It could look like noticing a critical thought without believing it. Or speaking up in a relationship without over-explaining. There’s often a growing sense of clarity: about internal values, deservingness, and a want to show up in their lives more confidently.

Clients can begin to relate to themselves differently. Instead of trying to fix or hide parts of who they are, they begin to care for those parts. They speak kindlier to themselves, not because they’re forcing it, but because something inside them is beginning to believe they’re worth it.

How they show up in relationships can shift as well. They start choosing connection over performance. Boundaries and limits become clearer and more possible. And there’s a quiet but steady sense of returning to themselves, their bodies, their communities. Not perfectly, but meaningfully.

What LGBTQ+ Therapy in Portland Looks Like Week to Week

Working with a LGBTQ therapist in Portland isn’t about “fixing” who you are. It’s about finding steadiness, insight, and gentleness as you navigate life’s challenges. Some weeks, therapy might look like unpacking a hard moment with your past relationships or a triggering work interaction. Other weeks, it could be about celebrating change (like setting a boundary, showing up more authentically, or simply surviving another tough day).

We might use mindfulness or grounding exercises, talk through internalized messages, or explore the fears and hopes that live beneath the surface. Often, we return to recurring themes, not because you’re stuck, but because healing is layered. And with each pass, you may find something new: a shift in how you speak to yourself, how you hold your story, how you understand your needs.

There’s no single “right way” to do this. You bring your truth, and I bring the tools and presence to support your growth. We go at your pace, on your terms.

Let’s Begin This Work Together

As an LGBTQ therapist in Portland, I help Queer and trans clients across Oregon heal from shame, anxiety, and self-doubt so they can live with more clarity, confidence and connection.

You’ve done the hard work of surviving. Not it’s time to feel more rooted in who you are and more supported in where you’re going.

You don’t need to be perfect; you just need a place to begin

Call (971) 533-5590 or click here to schedule your free 15-minute phone consultation and let’s find out how I can help you.

FAQs – LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy in Portland, OR

1. What does LGBTQ+ affirming therapy mean?

LGBTQ+ affirming therapy means this is support built with you in mind. Your gender, sexuality, and identity aren’t just accepted—they’re deeply valued and integrated into the work we do. You don’t have to explain or justify who you are. Here, you are seen, respected, and supported as your whole self.

2. Can I talk about things beyond just my identity?

Absolutely. While identity may shape some of your experiences, therapy is a place to bring all of you; your relationships, anxiety, trauma, work stress, grief, self-worth, or whatever is weighing on your heart. This is your space, and you get to decide what we focus on.

3. I’m not out to everyone. Is that okay?

Yes, completely. You get to decide who knows what, and when. Therapy can be a place to explore those choices safely and without pressure. Whether you're questioning, closeted, selectively out, or shifting how you identify, all of that is welcome here.

4. What if I still struggle with internalized homophobia or transphobia?

That’s exactly what this therapy is for. We’ll work together to untangle those painful messages that never belonged to you. Through compassion-focused therapy, parts work (IFS), and mindfulness, we’ll meet those internalized voices with care so they no longer dictate your worth or hold you back from joy.

5. I’ve tried therapy before and didn’t feel understood. How is this different?

As a Queer therapist in Oregon, I offer not just affirming care but informed, lived-experience care. You don’t have to educate me on basic terminology or fear judgment. Clients have shared that this alone brings a deep sense of relief and trust. You deserve to do this work somewhere where you’re safe to be real.

6. What if I’m questioning my gender or sexuality?

You’re welcome here, exactly as you are. Questioning can feel exciting, confusing, scary, and freeing all at once. Therapy can be a gentle, affirming place to explore these questions at your own pace without expectations, labels, or pressure to define anything before you’re ready.

7. Do you help with coming out, especially later in life or in difficult environments?

Yes. Coming out is deeply personal and can happen at many stages of life. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, religious communities, or workplace concerns, we can talk through your options and support your safety, well-being, and authenticity. You don’t have to go through it alone.

8. Do you support people healing from religious trauma related to being LGBTQ+?

Yes. Many of my clients carry wounds from religious or spiritual communities that rejected or shamed them for who they are. Whether you’ve left those spaces, are still connected to them, or are trying to reclaim your spirituality in a new way, there’s room to explore as part of your healing.

9. I worry I’m not “queer enough.” Is this something we can talk about?

Absolutely. This is a common experience, especially within LGBTQ+ communities. Whether it’s fear of not fitting in, questioning your identity, or feeling invisible in Queer spaces, we can unpack those beliefs together. You don’t have to prove or perform your identity here.

10. Can therapy help with anxiety, depression, or trauma that’s unrelated to my identity?

Yes. Many of my LGBTQ+ clients seek therapy for issues beyond identity, like anxiety, panic, burnout, relationship struggles, or past trauma. The key is having a therapist with whom your identity is respected and included in the context of everything else you’re working on.

11. Do you offer LGBTQ+ affirming therapy online?

Yes, I offer LGBTQ therapy in Portland and throughout Oregon via secure online sessions.. This means you can access support from the comfort of a private space of your choosing.

12. How do I know if therapy is working?

We’ll regularly check in about how you’re feeling in therapy, emotionally and practically. Many clients notice subtle changes first: less self-judgment, more grounding, or feeling more hopeful. Over time, those shifts deepen into confidence, clarity, and stronger relationships with yourself and others.

13. Is this therapy private and confidential?

Yes. Everything you share in therapy is confidential, except in rare cases required by law (such as safety concerns). I take your privacy seriously, especially knowing that safety can be a concern for LGBTQ+ individuals in certain settings.

14. What if I don’t feel ready to start therapy but I know I need something?

That’s totally okay. Therapy isn’t about being “ready” or having it all figured out. It’s enough to be curious, to want change, or to want someone in your corner. We can start from wherever you are.

15. Do you offer superbills for insurance reimbursement?

Yes. While currently accepting self-pay and clients with CareOregon (OHP), I provide superbills for any client whose plan includes out-of-network benefits and who wishes to use them. I’m happy to discuss this with you.

16. What if I’m afraid to trust someone with my story?

That fear makes so much sense, especially if you’ve been judged, dismissed, or hurt in the past. Trust isn’t something I expect right away. It’s something we build together, slowly and respectfully. You get to set the pace. In affirming therapy for LGBTQIA2+ clients, you don’t have to perform or prove anything. Just being here is enough. I’ll meet you with warmth, openness, and a commitment to making our work together safe and steady, no matter where you’re starting from.